How about changing colours? (commented game)
Yamashita, 9-dan likes to play for influence. Hane Naoki, 9-dan likes to take territory.
After the first joseki both players thought they are losing the game. Yamashita got cash, Hane got nice moyo. Both were unhappy :) Sometimes it's good to propose your partner to change colors during the game :)
Game commentary: Alexander Dinerchtein (breakfast on KGS)